Go to the doctor.

When my first daughter was born I bought an otoscope.  Later I bought a stethoscope.  I wish I were kidding but I was a frantic mommy, terrified that I would miss something so I would listen to her heart and look in her ears.

It dawned on me two-ish years later that having the instruments did not make me a doctor, and that even though I was looking, I had no idea what I was seeing.  It is always best to go to a professional.  Always.

Who knew that so many years later I would have the same revelation about photography.  Only this time, I am on the other end.  I have the equipment.  I know how to use it.  I know how to arrive at a client’s home on a cloudy, miserable, rainy, dark day and find a 2 foot square of light and produce beautiful, lasting images from it.

I know how to arrive in a dark room lit only a bit by overhead flourescent lighting and tell my camera exactly what to do so that I can catch a baby arriving into the world.

And there is more.  I know that in thirty years, at your daughter’s wedding, you are not going to display a picture of her hanging from a branch or stuck in a bucket.  You are going to display a timeless, clean, simple picture of her small face and everyone is going to remark at what a beautiful baby she was and how blessed you were as parents to have such wonderful memories.

And I know that there are a lot of photographers that would be happy to capture your family.

I know that when we meet for the first time, there is a chance that you will say “Photography is expensive!” And on the one hand, it is.

I know that there is a chance that you will say “I know a friend who is just taking pictures for fun and she is half your cost!” And I will say that she probably is not.  Today may cost less, but are you buying a snapshot or a memory?  Capturing memories is priceless.

I will explain that a photographer that can get you that one beautiful image that will stand the test of time, that will be proudly displayed at your baby’s wedding, that will always be the work of art that sticks in your mind when you think of her at that age is an investment. That having a box of snapshots costs a lot more in the long run than having a few breathtaking images.

And I will admit that there are many photographers that are cheaper than I am.

There are many photographers that have the tools but not the knowledge.

I run a legal and legitimate business.  I pay my taxes. I have invested in the very best equipment. I am affiliated with professional print labs that only legal businesses have access to. I invest in training regularly.  I belong to professional organizations.  I surround myself with others far more experienced than I and learn every single day at least one thing to better my talent.  All of that costs my business money, and of course the cost is passed onto my clients…that is how business is run.  But when someone offers photography at a drastically lower price, a client has to ask themselves which of these aspects they are willing to sacrifice when capturing priceless family memories.  I will deliver a finished product that you will love today and tomorrow, but I am investment.

Many families ask for help maximizing their investment.  I offer bundled packages (maternity, birth, newborn) as well as payment plans.  I accept credit cards as well and I also offer a referral program that can earn you a free session if you refer 6 friends.

 

But please, invest in your memories.  Tomorrow will be here so quickly.

 

 

 

 

 

Newborn Seth {Fredericksburg VA newborn photographer}

Ohh Ohhh Ohhhhh, how I love babies! And in my book, first babies just take the cake.  I love the excitement of a family that was two and is now three.  Makes me all misty-eyed.

And when baby and mommy are this gorgeous? Well…icing on the cake!

Seth has been born into a home of laughter, joy and love, and parents so proud of their little man and their new and beautiful family.

I just loved spending the afternoon with the three of them (and grandma!) and when I came home I just couldn’t wait to snuggle my own sweet ones.

Because the one thing that I try to tell all new parents is that they joy only grows, the love only deepens, the miracle that is them changes from tiny people that belong to you, to bigger people with their own personalities and it is such a treasure to watch those develop.  It is worth each and every sleepless night, every time you trip over a toy, every time you are sick with worry.

It is the greatest blessing ever.

Welcome to the club, Brandon, Donna and sweet baby Seth!

Happy Anniversary to SMP…. {Fredericksburg VA photographer}

When I started my photography business, I said some silly things.

I said that I only wanted a hobby.

I said that you don’t need a super fancy camera if you have a great eye.

I said that I specialized in…. everything, really.  I think at one time, I couldn’t even fit everything in one tagline.  ”Specializing in maternity, engagements, babies, children, families, newborns, seniors, headshots, events…. ” Lord, have mercy.  I do believe that is what one calls “finding themselves.”

So, if you are a photographer, you probably already know what happened: I upgraded my camera…three times.  Yes, you need a great eye, but you also need the right equipment.

I found a style.  And the most amazing thing is that I found that a lot of families really loved my style.  Which meant my hobby grew and flourished into a bona fide business.  The first time that someone called me that I didn’t know and said “I just love your work and would love to schedule an appointment” I literally got off of the phone and jumped up and down on  my couch.

As my business grew, I prayed hard for guidance.  Because, truthfully, I did not love every type of photography.  And I wanted my clients to always get my passion and love poured into their finished product…so, I made a decision to specialize.  To really specialize, not specialize with twenty tags but to focus on what gives me goosebumps: expectant mommies, the birth of a new baby, a precious, sleepy newborn and of course my boudoir division, which has really taken off.

And I began to learn more and more and more.  To study my craft more and more.  To join professional associations to surround myself with true, seasoned professionals. To attend classes and conventions, to soak up the knowledge of far more experienced pros, to raise my hand every single time and say “I don’t know the answer! Teach me!”

And believe me, there were some bumps… a lot of bumps… and some pictures that I wish I had not taken. (hahaha…of course I will never share those!)

But, I began to say with a straight face “I am a photographer” when people asked what I do.

There are a lot of photographers around today.  That is okay, there is room for us all.  I love to meet guys and gals that are picking up a dslr for the first time and trying to figure out what all of those knobs do, because I have been that photographer. I love the excitement of beginning their journey~ we all start somewhere! And I love meeting with them and sharing some of what I have learned, as so many have done for me.  And I think it is only fair since I still have so much to learn from those that have been doing it longer and better than I.

It is the eve of my business anniversary.  A lot changed this year, and all for the better.  Stephanie McFarland Photography has grown by leaps and bounds, fertilized with learning and nurturing and striving to deliver a product to all of my clients that they cherish for many, many years.

Photography is important.  Very, very important.  It is what helps you remember today.  It is what captures a moment with someone you love, or for someone that you love, because we never know what will happen tomorrow.  It makes us hold a kinder mirror to ourselves, and see an inner bombshell where we thought only a soccer mom lived.

Invest in your memories.  Invest in a photographer that invests in their business, that continues to learn, that feeds their business with excitement and passion.

And thank you ALL for all of the beautiful moments that you have shared with me.  Thank you for believing in me, trusting me, encouraging me and just making me so, so happy I could just bust!

And Happy Anniversary, Stephanie McFarland Photography!

Announcing…my in-home, natural light studio space

I am so, so pleased to announce that I will now be offering newborn sessions in my home studio.  Now new mommies and daddies can choose which is easiest for them: me coming to you, or you to me.

Here are a few pics:

I just love the soft, natural light that filters in… perfect for snuggling sweet babies to sleep…

Here is the finished shot from that set up:

Over the weekend, I posted a challenge on my boudoir fan page to choose five words that best describe Sassy boudoir by Stephanie McFarland Photography.  This was following an assignment from a class that I was taking to choose my OWN five words to describe my vision for/of my own business. The importance is that I want every woman who comes to my Boudoir session to know exactly who I am, and exactly what they can expect from my work.  Boudoir is a powerful medium, one that I am so, so proud of.  It can literally change how a woman sees herself, give her back a feeling that she lost, renew her feelings of “beautiful and sexy.” That is an amazing gift to be able to give, and I love each and every one of my boudoir clients like old friends.

My words are: Classy, Elegant, Sophisticated, Timeless, Beautiful

If you are following along and have three or more matches, message me so I can arrange your free gift!

By the way, any variations are acceptable.  So if you have beauty instead of beautiful or Classic instead of Classy, I will take those, too!

 

 

Welcome, Presleigh {Fredericksburg VA newborn Photographer}

Newborns are, without a doubt, my favorite subjects.  I love snuggling with them, smelling their sweet baby smells and shh-shh-shhhhing them to sleep before capturing their precious little faces.

Some newborns have other ideas…

Baby Presleigh is beautiful, soft and sweet, and so, sooo alert.  She was so afraid of missing anything that we spent five hours, over two days, trying to get her to sleep.

It never happened.  She kept one eye open for our entire session…but that is okay.  She sure was happy and content and we got some beautiful images!

I can’t wait to see how busy she is at her one year old session!

 

 

Crystal {Fredericksburg, VA Boudoir Photographer}

Crystal also came out for last weekend’s Boudoir party.  Boudoir is fun, empowering, uplifting any old day, but when you add a group of girlfriends in, it really becomes something special!

(love, love, LOVE her lashes!)

 

Won’t hubby be surprised when he opens his valentine’s gift this year?

Stop in at my facebook page www.facebook.com/SassyBoudoir for more information on your own pin up party, as well as a fun contest to help describe Sassy Boudoir…and win a free print or print credit.

 

 

Baby A {Fredericksburg, Va newborn photographer}

As a more seasoned mommy, I often tell my new clients to be careful because when you blink… you miss years it sometimes seems.  Your baby bird will start spreading their wings, learn to fly and one day will be ready to leave the nest.

How fitting…. just look at this baby bird.  Serene, new and just precious.

 

She was a sweet princess, slept like a darling and got some great shots for her mommy. Newborns always make me a little dramatic.  Such hope, promise and joy wrapped into 7 tiny pounds.

 

Welcome to the world, sweet and beautiful baby!